How to make myself more attractive?
Many people successfully find love at first sight and it often sounds like it all happens by chance. But, does it really? Does fate actually have anything to do with instantly being attracted to someone? Or, is it largely credited to personal set-up? It is a fact that when you make the effort to be attractive, you often get rewarded for it.
Now you are about to find out for yourself if you make your own destiny. Try out these 7 simple ways to make yourself instantly more attractive.
1. DIETING AND WORK-OUT
Having a gym membership (which most people should have) is good, but a healthy diet is also just as pertinent. Getting and staying fit is a great way to secure attraction. People hardly credit dieting enough. But it is one of the simplest steps toward losing extra weight. The first rung on the ladder of weight loss and physical fitness requires taking on a diet... of veggies, legumes, and oats. You have to make inconvenient decisions such as giving up greasy and fatty foods. And of course, reducing food portions. Couple these with a healthy dose of weekly work-outs. These can instantly make you attractive.
2. READ BOOKS
Intelligence is such an attractive trait, especially for sapiosexuals. It might sound like a myth, but some women get turned on by a man’s intelligence. One of the surest ways to attain any great level of intelligence is to read. Developing a reading culture exposes you to lots of information and creates intelligence. This habit is also key to picking up interests in a vast number of subjects. Hence, can increase your chances of holding stimulating conversations.
3. CREATE SEXUAL TENSION
Sexual tension is closely linked with attraction. It is such an interesting phenomenon. It is you feeling full by licking every inch of the forbidden fruit... without actually taking a bite. Sexual tension is more about everything arcing towards sex. Rather than the actual sex itself. You need to stimulate an atmosphere of attraction to create this feeling. A good way to do this is with witty conversations and sprinklings of innuendos. Make a woman laugh genuinely and feel relaxed and comfortable around you. This makes you instantly attractive.
4. DEVELOP CONFIDENCE AND CHARISMA
Looking to ignite instant attraction? Be confident. Confidence begets charisma. One way to instantly increase your appeal is to walk through the door with a healthy dose of self-esteem. Approach the woman of your dreams with confidence and a swagger in your step. Always try to hold eye contact during conversations. And of course, none of that fidgeting and nervous twiddling of fingers.
Cultivating a romantic side can give many benefits. Women appreciate it when they are the beneficiaries of romantic gestures. Do thoughtful things like getting flowers, paying attention to details, or practicing generosity. These are hallmarks of a romantic man. Guaranteed to generate attraction for you instantly.
6. APPEALING SENSE OF HUMOUR:
The buff guy gets the girls (Nah I’m just kidding); the funny guy gets the girls. Studies have shown that men make more attempts at jokes than women and that’s for a reason. Men have begun to realize that one of the fastest ways to break down a woman’s defenses is to make her laugh. Whether by innate instincts or by general conditioning. Laughter is a precursor to trust. Use jokes or just hearty conversations to make a woman laugh or smile. The more they do, the more trust is built and they get attracted to you.
7. TASTEFUL FASHION SENSE
Work out your wardrobe. Take out the clown costumes. Fill your rack with pieces of clothing that compliment your physical features. Display a healthy contrast to your skin. Bring out your eye color and compliment your physique. Adorning yourself with nice accessories is also a tasteful touch to your fashion. The overall aim of clothes is to make you comfortable and presentable. Once you achieve these, you would have done well for yourself and your attraction journey.
Good grooming is essential too. Compliment your fashion with the right hairstyle. Use hair products of good quality. Other products may be cheaper but will end up costing you more because of inferior quality.
Even if you do not get to work on these ideas at a go, continuous practice will definitely lead to perfection. Consistency is key and will go a long way to making these attributes more of second nature. Then you will begin to exhibit them naturally. Consistently work out, read and develop confidence. You will have greater attractiveness and appeal.